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Churches looking for a Silver Bullet in a microwave culture
January 20, 2012
The past 6 weeks or so I’ve spent discussing the importance of creating extended families on mission (Missional Communities of 20-50 people) and in the midst of that time I’ve been doing workshops talking about similar things.
In these last few weeks, two things have stuck out to me in interacting with pastors about Missional Communities:
- So many pastors are looking for the Silver Bullet. They are looking for the one thing that can save the day and keep their church (and the church in general) from the precipitous decline they are facing.
- They are hoping to master whatever this Silver Bullet is, whatever it may be, and hoping they can do so almost overnight. As if you could stick their church in a microwave, and two minutes later…DING!…”it’s ready!”
First, I do believe there is a Silver Bullet for the church and it’s discipleship. However, the issue is that discipleship is something that is simple, but hard, not complex and easy. It takes a while. And because we’ve been about building churches first and foremost (hoping it would grow as quickly as possible) and rather whimsically hoping we get disciples out of it, we’re not accustomed to the amount of time and energy it takes to make even one disciple.
More and more I see this phenomenon happening with Missional Communities (MC’s) as well. I meet pastors who are looking for a quick fix to their seemingly unfixable problems. They assume that learning how to start, grow, disciple people and multiply MC’s is as simple as doing a 40 Days of Purpose sermon series. But it’s just not. It takes a long time to learn it.
Think of it this way.
Most pastors spend years and years becoming experts in running Sunday morning worship gatherings. They go to seminary for it. Spend 15-30 hours of sermon prep each week. Many grew up attending worship services and are thus pre-conditioned to have a certain level of expertise already (through the immersion process). If I were to hazard a guess, I’d say it takes about 5 years of hard work before a pastor feels really competent in large gathering services. A lot of time and energy have gone into this.
Why do we assume that learning something like Missional Communities will be any easier or take less time? Why do we think we can learn to do MC’s faster than we can learn the worship service, something that most of us grew up with? MC’s are foreign to so many of us. It’s not like we can stick it in a microwave and pop it out.
I was talking with our Director of Content last week, Doug Paul, and he mentioned that he didn’t feel he was competent in launching, growing and multiplying Missional Communities for 18 months…and even then, he only felt he was “OK” at it and was still a ways off from “very good at it.” I imagine people like Michael Stewart at VERGE/Austin Stone and Jeff Vanderstelt at SOMA would agree, as they’ve been doing great work with Missional Communities for several years now. It’s not easy, it’s not quick and it takes time to learn.
Now it’s completely worth it, but if we approach it like it’s a quick fix that will come easily, we’ve got a surprise coming our way.
I keep coming back to this quote from J.S. Bryan, but I think it’s so true:
Many men can build a fortune, but few men can build a family.
Similarly, I would say that many pastors can lead a worship service, but few pastors have the patience to learn the art of Missional Communities. It’s going to take longer than a week, a month or a year!
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January 23, 2012 5:28 pm When we try to lay ‘missional’ over top a deeply embedded quick fix culture we ensure failure all around. We’ve got to build on a new foundation and lay aside false ideas and presumption before we can build the new thing God desires to do in our midst.
Isaiah 43:18
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January 23, 2012 5:36 pm Sadly, I think this is quite true. Even in some of the churches most committed to “making disciples” it seems that the deep, long process of producing a culture of men and women who get the DNA of reproducing truly productive generations of disciples disintegrates in the swirl of “good” things.
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Joseph Winston permalink
January 23, 2012 5:53 pm It is hard not to want a silver bullet when the ship seems to be in danger of sinking on our watch.
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TRENT BALLARD permalink
January 23, 2012 7:11 pm This was very evident at the Denver gathering last week. I think it is ironic that ideas such as extended family seem revolutionary to pastors, but in matter of fact is what Paul viewed as God’s family or the Family of Families. Thanks for your heart and not giving into the flash in the pan forms of ministry. Although for church planters, it is challenging in the early days it seems since most people are not interested in paying a pastor to do ministry like Jesus!
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January 24, 2012 3:23 am
gotta love the reality of 1 Cor. 4:15 and 1 Thess. 2:7\-8\.
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January 23, 2012 7:20 pm It comes back to the fundamental call of God to the cross, to death. All good harvests require death, silent and underground, for some period of time. No resurrection of the church without death first, which here is the rejection of the quick, the easy, and the impersonal and programmatic.
If any man seek to save his public and respectable church, he shall lose it, but if he lose his life through discipleship and true fellowship, he will find the church resurrected and alive in his midst.
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Gene permalink
January 23, 2012 7:23 pm Good word! I’ve been in Italy 28 years as a church planter, and every year is one more affirmative exclamation point to Mike’s message. Relationships take time, as does transformation. I’d rather grow an oak tree than a squash. – Gene Coleman
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January 23, 2012 7:50 pm I would take it one step further beyond a microwave society to the age of the Ronco “you set it and forget it”. Not only do we want to have it now, but we want to forget about the work that goes in to making “it”, albeit a steak, turkey or deeper relationships with God or the people around us. We no longer want to put in the effort or the energy for deep-meaningful-breakthrough relationships, we just want them now. In terms of this article, relationships take time but the culture we live in has moved from being invested into a relationship with someone to the internet, have-it-now dot com, becasue we want instant gratification (Not to say all internet relationships are bad, but relationships do take time and patience and the divorce rate is really high, another quick fix for some, again not all). My point in all this is it seems we have moved so far away from the hands that have formed/shaped/knit us that we have almost lost/forgotten what it takes to work in the garden. Thank you for these words, may God’s peace bless you and your family now and forever + Amen.
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January 23, 2012 8:06 pm Thank you for this. Bearing fruit takes time. (Ask Johnny Appleseed.)
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January 23, 2012 9:06 pm
I’ve seen that quotation by J.S. Bryan a few different places now, but I’ve yet to see any explanation of who J.S. Bryan is. Did I miss something? Who is he? Did this quotation come from a book he wrote?
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January 26, 2012 3:49 am
It’s actually a quote vy Bryant lifted from Guy Kawasakis book “Enchantment.” not sure where it originally comes from.
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January 24, 2012 5:39 am Is having to “unlearn” harder than learning? Its definitely harder to swim upstream against the flow of the “perceived norm”. Almost everyone agrees (in theory) that mission and discipleship are essential – but praxis is debatable – is this because they don’t truly believe that Jesus’ methodology is still valid let alone the best way.
Or is the bottom line that if they upset folk then they (pastors) are just out of a job?
Still attempting to live a life “beyond explanation”!
Thanks for that one Mike
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January 24, 2012 10:49 am I see the ‘difficulties’ faced come out of the conditioning of church and leaders to presume the service, preach, pastor modal of local Christian community to need tweaking in order to restore faith and favour from the broad community toward it. I believe that devolving this modal is the only way that church will grow. Event (not necessarily on a Sabbath or weekly) and engagement are the ways Western society works. If people feel that a Worship and Word event is appealing then they will make time to attend but the base community comes out of engagement with ‘family’ (for want of a better descriptive term). The body of Christ, existing in diversity of community, has the capacity to draw seekers and sojourners into a committed discipleship if time, energy and resources are equally applied to engagement as well as event. Unfortunately much of the efforts of Christian leaders, and so the occupation of their time, energy and resources is at present directed toward events. This creates a one dimensional discipleship that will not withstand testing as the times demand.
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michael wallenmeyer (@michaelsw) permalink
January 24, 2012 6:15 pm thank you for this painful reminder! always good to hear from others who are in the trenches and living it out.
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January 25, 2012 3:57 pm Thanks for the insight and challenge, Mike. I’m finding that starting a new expression founded on MC’s is something that I’m failing quite consistently at! Those of us who have our background in more attractional modes of church find the ideas of living as oikos of faith refreshing- but it’s way easier said than done. Even being relational to the core, I find myself constantly fighting the benchmarks of more traditional church plants, and fighting the temptation to simply create the church service experience within the house, and call it a missional community. It’s requiring unbelievable patience, trusting the Spirit and the relational formation process in this season of abiding. And yet there’s a wonderful sense deep within me that is unmistakably Kingdom stuff.
Looking forward to being with the LC gang in Atlanta next week for encouragement and new vision!
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