The Language of Breenism: A Critical Glossary of Core Tools

Understanding the tools of a High-Control System

Investigation: Mike Breen

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Introduction

To understand a high-control system, you must first learn to speak its language. These environments build a world of their own, complete with a unique vocabulary that redefines reality for those inside. This specialised jargon functions as an ideological code, creating a shared identity for insiders while isolating them from the perspectives of outsiders.

The discipleship system known as “Breenism” is built on such a language. Terms like “Huddle,” “LifeShapes,” and “Invitation and Challenge” are presented as empowering, biblically-grounded tools for spiritual growth. On the surface, they offer a compelling vision for a more intentional Christian life. Beneath the surface, however, they function as the core mechanics of a system that fosters dependency and control.

Breenism refers to the discipleship system designed and exported by Mike Breen, the organisation 3DM, and the Anglican Mission Order “The Order of Mission,” from the late 1990s onward. It is characterised by:

  • Lifeshapes: a suite of geometric diagrams (circle, semicircle, square, triangle, etc.) presented as universal tools for Christian life and leadership.
  • Invitation and Challenge: a repeated relational framing where followers are alternately affirmed (“invitation”) and pressured to change (“challenge”), often structured around leader–disciple dynamics.
  • Obedience Structures: a strong emphasis on submission to human leaders, framed as discipleship, which can blur boundaries between spiritual formation and authoritarian control.
  • Multiplication Model: a franchised approach to church growth that treats discipling relationships as scalable units, privileging replication over local discernment.

The term is used here to distinguish this system sharply from wider traditions of Christian discipleship, especially the Christ-centred vision articulated by Dietrich Bonhoeffer in The Cost of Discipleship and Life Together. Whereas Bonhoeffer placed obedience in direct relationship to Christ, Breenism redirects obedience through a codified methodology and hierarchical chain of command.

This glossary is designed to act as a decoder. It serves as a foundational companion to our primary investigation, “Mike Breen: The Architect of Coercive Control,” and our analysis of the system’s mechanics, “The Breenism Toolkit.” Each entry is presented in two parts:

  • The System’s Framing: This section presents the concept as it is framed in Mike Breen’s own materials, explaining its stated purpose and appeal.
  • Our View & Safeguarding Concerns: This section provides a critical analysis of how the concept functions in practice, identifying the mechanisms of control and the associated risks to individuals and communities.

The purpose is to equip you with the clarity to see both the surface appeal and the underlying mechanics of the system. By understanding the language, you can recognise the architecture of control it builds.


I. Core Methodologies

Huddles

Quick Definition: A small, invitation-only discipleship group of 4-10 current or future leaders who meet regularly with a leader to learn a shared spiritual language and be held accountable.

Invitation and Challenge

Quick Definition: The core relational dynamic in Breenism, described as a repeating cycle of drawing followers closer (invitation) and pushing them to change (challenge), which is presented as the key to creating a discipling culture.

Accountability

Quick Definition: A relational process presented as the 21st-century equivalent of the monastic vow of “obedience,” where disciples are held accountable to what God is saying to them and what they are going to do about it.

The Discipleship Process (Information → Imitation → Innovation)

Quick Definition: A three-stage, sequential model presented as the necessary pathway for disciple-making, where a disciple learns foundational information, then imitates a leader’s life, before they are considered competent to innovate.

The Three Learning Styles (Apprenticeship/Immersion)

Quick Definition: A framework that identifies three distinct modes of learning—Classroom, Apprenticeship, and Immersion—and argues that effective discipleship requires a dynamic interplay of all three, correcting the modern church’s over-reliance on classroom-style information transfer.

Language Creates Culture

Quick Definition: The foundational principle that a shared, intentional language is required to create a desired culture, and that the modern church lacks an effective “discipling language” necessary to form disciples.

II. The LifeShapes Toolkit

(This section can group all the geometric tools for clarity.)

The Learning Circle (kairos)

Quick Definition: A six-step process used in Breenism to help disciples learn from significant life events (called kairos moments) by moving through a structured cycle of repentance and belief.

The Triangle (up, in, out)

Quick Definition: A visual tool used in Breenism to illustrate the three core relationships of a balanced Christian life: the relationship with God (UP), with fellow believers (IN), and with the world (OUT).

The Square (Leadership)

Quick Definition: A four-stage model used in Breenism to map the developmental journey of a disciple and the corresponding leadership style that should be adopted at each phase.

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The Semi Circle (abiding, fruitfulness)

Quick Definition: A model representing the biblical “rhythm of life” that should exist between fruitful work and intentional rest, pictured as a pendulum swinging between “abiding” and “fruitfulness”.

Primary Source: A core concept detailed in Chapter 9 of Building a Discipling Culture.

analysed In The Toolkit:

  • This concept is not directly analysed in a specific technique card but relates to the theme of burnout discussed in [Link to] Boundary Erosion.

The Pentagon (fivefold ministries)

Quick Definition: A framework based on Ephesians 4 that assigns every believer a primary “base ministry” in one of five roles: Apostle, Prophet, Evangelist, Pastor, or Teacher.

The Octagon (Person of Peace)

Quick Definition: An evangelism strategy focused on identifying individuals whom God has pre-prepared to be receptive to the gospel message, rather than trying to convince those who are resistant.


III. Key Titles

First published: 2013Author(s): Mike Breen

Building a Discipling Culture

The author argues that the Western church has a fundamental discipleship problem, not a missional one, and is failing to adapt to a world of rapid “seismic shifts”. The book’s central premise is that if leaders focus on making disciples, a church will naturally result, but focusing on building a church rarely produces disciples. To address this, the author presents a structured system for creating a discipling culture. This system is built upon three core components: a specific discipleship vehicle called a Huddle, an “agreed-on discipling language” of visual tools called LifeShapes, and a requirement for leaders to provide disciples with a high degree of access to their personal lives, known as Family on Mission.

The proposed model operates through a cascading leadership structure where a leader intentionally disciples a small, closed group of four to ten people in a Huddle. Within these Huddles, the leader uses the LifeShapes framework—shapes like the Circle, Triangle, and Square—to teach a specific approach to hearing from God, balancing relationships, establishing life rhythms, and leading others. The process is designed to combine high levels of personal invitation with direct challenge. The stated goal of this intensive process is multiplication; members of a Huddle are expected to eventually start their own Huddles, thereby creating a discipling movement.

First published: 2019Author(s): Mike Breen

Speak Out

The book outlines a systematic communication framework designed to produce spiritual “awakening.” The process begins with Content, where an individual is instructed to identify what the author calls “my gospel”—a personal message derived from their life experiences—and validate it against a scriptural “metanarrative”. This message is then distilled into reproducible “memes,” which are simple, transferable concepts or diagrams intended for easy recall and transmission. The next phase, Context, requires the communicator to adapt this message by analysing the social “History” of their community and the personal “Biography” of their audience members. This analysis informs the adoption of a calculated “Stance” toward the audience and their cultural environment, which dictates the tone and positioning of the communication.

The final part of the framework, which the author labels Conversion, structures the audience’s intended spiritual experience around the mythological pattern of the hero’s journey. This narrative is segmented into three distinct phases. It starts with the communicator issuing a Call, which is meant to make an individual aware of a specific mission. This is followed by the Challenge, a necessary period of trial where the individual enters a “valley” of difficulty and must rely on mentors and a supportive community (“oikos”) to proceed. The journey culminates in the Completion, where the individual achieves a breakthrough, receives spiritual “bounties,” and is positioned to mentor others, thereby perpetuating the system. The entire model is presented as a repeatable process to guide an audience from revelation to a specific, actionable response.

First published: 2014Author(s): Mike Breen, Sally Breen

Family On Mission

In Family on Mission, the author presents a model for Christian life and ministry designed to integrate what are often seen as separate spheres: personal family life and external mission. The text argues against two other models: Family OR Mission, which suggests one must be sacrificed for the other, and Family AND Mission, which attempts to manage both in separate compartments, leading to exhaustion. The proposed solution, Family ON Mission, is framed as a return to a biblical pattern, drawing on the nature of God as a Trinitarian family, the example of Jesus building a new family with his disciples, and the structure of the early church’s household (oikos). This model is not presented as an occasional programme but as a totalising way of life, where disciple-making is the primary function of an integrated community.

The book outlines a specific structure for implementing this model, centred on three core components: Spiritual Parents, Predictable Patterns, and a Missional Purpose. The leadership function is filled by “spiritual parents,” who take responsibility for the family’s development and are to be imitated by its members. This role requires the leaders to practise submission of their own agenda, sacrifice for the group’s good, and cultivate spiritual depth. The life of the group is regulated by “predictable patterns”—a framework of rhythms and disciplines intended to create stability and security. These patterns include required daily meals and routines designed to shape the identity of the members. Finally, the entire system is oriented by a shared “missional purpose,” which acts as the integrating principle for all decisions and directs the family’s collective time and resources.

First published: 1997Author(s): Mike Breen

The Body Beautiful

In The Body Beautiful, Mike Breen frames his work with a personal vision set in the Forest of Dean. In this vision, a demonic entity battles the church’s angelic champion. The demon, after initially stumbling, recovers and begins to laugh because it perceives the church as fundamentally passive and ineffectual. The vision’s premise is that this enemy force is in control, believing any territory the church gains can be easily retaken at will. This sets the stage for Breen’s system for assessing the spiritual condition of individuals and churches, which uses the letters to the seven churches in Revelation as a diagnostic framework. Each church is presented as a case study for a particular spiritual malady, such as lost love or complacency, analysed through the recurring categories of spiritual diet, exercise, and lifestyle.

To apply this framework, the author employs a series of tools designed for self-evaluation. The book includes “Spiritual Health Report Cards” for each church type and provides “Personal Spiritual Health Check” charts for readers to assess themselves against these metrics. Breen also introduces personality typologies, such as the “Ahab/Jezebel” spectrum for passivity and control and the “Pioneer/Settler” classification for ministry orientation, complete with self-scoring questionnaires. The book presents these instruments as tools to help Christians categorise their spiritual state and character tendencies, with the stated goal of aligning them with a model of spiritual health and effectiveness.

First published: 2011Author(s): Mike Breen

Covenant and Kingdom

In Covenant and Kingdom, Mike Breen presents a hermeneutical framework intended to make the Bible accessible to readers without formal theological training. The book argues that the entirety of Scripture is built upon a “double helix” of two core themes: Covenant and Kingdom. Covenant is defined as the relational aspect of faith, concerning how one is to “be one with God”. This is modeled as a triangle of Father, Identity, and Obedience. Kingdom is defined as the responsibility of faith, concerning how to “do something for God”. This is modeled with a corresponding triangle of King, Authority, and Power. Breen uses the narrative of Abraham to establish the principles of Covenant and the story of Joseph to introduce the principles of Kingdom.

The framework is then applied chronologically to other biblical figures, presenting Moses and David as individuals who integrated both themes, before culminating in Jesus, who is depicted as the perfect fulfillment of both Covenant and Kingdom. Breen uses this structure to interpret Jesus’s ministry, death, and resurrection, as well as the formation of the early church through the book of Acts and the letters of Paul. The book concludes by equipping the reader with “Tools for Interpretation,” which includes lists of keywords and guiding questions to analyse any scriptural passage through this binary lens. This system is positioned as the key to understanding the Bible’s narrative and applying it directly.

First published: 1991Author(s): Mike Breen

Growing The Smaller Church

In his first book, Growing the Smaller Church, Mike Breen documents the methods used to generate numerical growth at his church, All Saints, Brixton Hill. The book outlines a foundational process called “The Learning Loop,” a cycle of Repent (Observe, Review, Discuss) and Believe (Plan, Communicate, Act) intended to guide the church’s actions. This model is the direct precursor to the later “Learning Circle” (kairos), which uses a nearly identical six-step process of Observe, Reflect, Discuss, Plan, Account, and Act. Breen also details a “three-dimensional” model for church health, requiring an “upward” (worship), “inward” (fellowship), and “outward” (evangelism) focus. This concept was later codified into the visual tool known as “The Triangle” (up, in, out). A significant portion of the text is dedicated to a youth work strategy centred on “A-Teams”. These are small, replicable groups led by a worker and an assistant, designed for multiplication—a model that functions as an early prototype for the invitation-only “Huddle”. The book notes that this principle was being trialled for adults in “PACT” groups, bridging the gap between the youth-focused A-Team and the later adult-focused Huddle.

From the author’s perspective, the text functions as a blueprint for creating a series of interlocking and repeatable systems to manage church life and foster growth. It codifies a process for leadership development through four distinct stages—TELL, SELL, GEL, and DELEGATE—where a leader’s style adapts to a follower’s changing levels of competence and confidence. This exact progression was later formalised as the “Leadership Square,” which maps a disciple’s journey from being “Confident and Incompetent” (requiring a “directive” leader) to fully competent (allowing for “Delegation”). Together, these early versions of the tools construct a comprehensive system where decision-making (The Learning Loop), group structure (A-Teams), relational diagnostics (The Three Dimensions), and leadership processing (The Four Stages) are organised into defined, scalable processes intended to be implemented by church leadership.


IV. Organisations

3DM (3D Ministries)

3DM (3D Ministries) is an international organisation founded by Mike Breen to commercialise his discipleship methodologies through consultancy, courses, and books. The system is built around the proprietary methods described in this guide. While marketed as a framework for creating a “discipling culture,” the implementation of 3DM’s programmes has been publicly correlated with significant negative outcomes in numerous churches, including deep division, systematic exclusion of members, and sharp declines in attendance. Mike Breen left his leadership position at 3DM in 2014. The current leadership of 3DM were the first to publicise the confirmed clergy misconduct at Apex Church (Now Refuge Hill Church) in Ohio in 2024.

The Order of Mission (TOM)

The Order of Mission (TOM) is an ecumenical order founded by Mike Breen for leaders committed to his vision for mission and discipleship. Members commit to a shared way of life and specific vows, such as a “Vow of Accountability”. Breen left his leadership role in the order in 2014. Following the 2024 investigation that substantiated allegations of sexual abuse, TOM’s leadership announced in July 2024 that Mike Breen has been removed as a member of The Order of Mission. The organisation is also conducting an ongoing safeguarding “Learning Process” to review “historic leadership patterns” from Breen’s tenure, a process being developed with the Church of England’s National Safeguarding Team. This review is reportedly focused on member experiences and is not a fundamental review of Breen’s published methodologies.

Kairos Connexion

Kairos Connexion is a UK-based charity that functions as an official partner and trainer for the 3DM discipleship framework. The organisation’s mission is to equip church leaders across the UK to build “discipling cultures” by training them in the methodologies and proprietary tools (such as LifeShapes and Huddles) developed by Mike Breen. In response to the 2024 safeguarding investigation into Mike Breen, Kairos Connexion has publicly clarified that it operates independently of Breen, while continuing to use and very frameworks that he developed.

Apex Church (now Refuge Hill Church)

Apex Church, now known as Refuge Hill Church, is the Ohio-based church where Mike Breen was leading at the time of his 2024 resignation. The church commissioned the independent investigation that substantiated findings of “adult clergy sexual abuse” involving Breen. Following the public confirmation of these findings, the church rebranded itself as Refuge Hill Church. When contacted for the primary investigation, the church leadership did not respond to questions regarding whether they had conducted a review of Breen’s discipleship models.

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